Posts on Marriage

Dear Husband: Hallmark Doesn’t Have a Clue

Dear Husband, I had a hard time choosing an anniversary card for you. One that was realistic and reflects all we have been though. Most of those cards sounded so trite and shallow. I didn’t want to settle for some sing-songy card that took for granted the blood sweat and tears we have endured in…

A Quick Way to End an Argument

This summer we decided to get our little mini aussie puppy. It stressed me out BEYOND belief. Like, seriously people. I stressed out more about getting baby Oakley than I stressed about brain surgery. Seeing that little six-pound puppy running around our house (whom I couldn’t control) nearly made me go crazy. Fast forward seven…

Why I’m Anxious and Thankful

Since today is Thanksgiving, and this is a marriage blog, I thought I would fuse those two topics, and talk about why I am thankful. Novel, I know. I also would like to thank a few people who happen to be rocks in my life, currently. First of all, I know it can be challenging…

To the Wife Who Hates Her Mirror

Define “Cute.” I stood in front of my mirror the other day and thought, “Surely that is not me!” I hoped it was just bad lighting or something. I definitely wasn’t too pleased. I don’t have a lot of time these days to dedicate a beauty regimen, and the kids don’t really care if I…

Struggles of a Midlife Wife

Midlife is a strange place to be. It is sort of like being at two parties at once. Do I want to go dance to loud music and hit a piñata filled with candy, or do I want to go sip wine over candlelight while a classical guitarist serenades me? Am I craving adventure, or…

A Prayer for Your Husband at Work

Dear Father, I lift up my husband and his job up to you. I ask that you be with him while he is at work, and bless his efforts. Give him strength, patience, and wisdom in the situations he faces and the tasks he completes. I pray he feels Your nearness and your peace each…

3 Quick Ways to Embarrass Your Husband in Public

I know the situation very well—we’re out with friends, I say something before thinking, and my husband brings it up later. I didn’t mean anything by it in the moment, but looking back, maybe it wasn’t the best way to handle the situation. But he’s probably overreacting anyway, right? It depends on the situation, but…